There are so many men to choose from and so little time. To avoid confusion, it's best to prepare plan. That way when you've found the right guy you'll know you've made a good decision.
Most women are looking for a partner that we will make them happy or 'complete'.
You might be happy with your life right now, but want to share good times with someone who loves you.
Raising a family together is also important to most women.
The biological clock keeps ticking and as we get older the pressure to find a good husband increases.
Many older women age 30 and older or have already had children are looking for man to fall in love with before they lose their good looks. They're afraid of being old and alone.
Some women take an active role by asking men on dates and taking charge of their decisions, but many do not. They do not ask men out on dates. They are looking to 'attract' someone special.
Either way it's important to understand that we can only attract people who are similar to us. This seems like a contradiction to the rule 'opposites attract' but it's really not. In my years of experience with couples, I've noticed that people in relationships think they're different when they're almost exactly the same emotionally!
It's your unconscious, feeling self that decides who you find attractive and who you don't like. Think about it. How many really nice single guys do you know? I bet if you that if you're a social outgoing person and you go through your address book you'll find dozens of male acquaintances or friends that you believe are 'nice'.
However why is that people can meet a complete stranger that they know nothing about and experience intense chemistry? Many times these people are incompatible, - complete opposites! Yet we're attracted to them! That's because on an unconscious level we are choosing marriage material!
Make a list of things that are important to you. Keep looking at it every day and updating it as needed. Why? Because if you don't know exactly what you're looking for, how will you know you've found the right guy?
The longer the list the better. First of all describe what your husband will look like in vivid detail. Next work on personality , things you will have in common, goals that you will work on together, and so on.
Don't leave out the most important detail. He must want you as badly as you want him. He must be ready, willing, and able to make a strong commitment to last a life time.
So many times we know exactly what we want and find him Then months or years later we discover that he's not willing to commit! So don't waste your time. The man you're going to attract must line up with at least 90% of what's on your list, especially the important qualities.