Are you attracted to older men? Or is there someone special who's far older than you? The good news is that many older men are attracted to young women. But there are some older men who feel uncomfortable dating someone too much younger. Here's how to know if an older man is interested in dating you.
Older men have many insecurities and the older they get the more you'll notice them. None the less most older men would prefer to date a younger woman as long as they are mature and there's a mutual attraction.
Most older men are not as blind when it comes to love, so maturity, being on the same page, stimulating conversations, and doing fun things together is far more important the older a man gets.
Most older men are more interested in relationships rather than casual sex, however older men who are recently separated or divorced tend to be more oversexed and needy.
If there is a big difference in age, you'll need to be more aggressive in letting him know you're interested. Sometimes older men look for hints that tell them you're interested. Why? Because they've been turned down before and some men may be embarrassed to ask someone a lot younger out on a date.
The way to tell if an older man likes you is to watch out for chemistry or a spark like you would with someone your own age. Age really doesn't matter when it comes to physical attraction. However huge age differences can be a problem if you're interested in a serious long term relationship.
An older man who likes you will do almost the same things as a younger man except there should be far more poise, finesse, and class involved in the seduction process.
Here are some things an older man might do to let you know he's interested.
He might spend a lot of time looking into your eyes, talking with you, joking, laughing, ...
he might take an unusual interest in everything you say, ...
he might offer to help you out with a problem you might be having or something that needs to be repaired around the house, ...
he might even jokingly make suggestions about going out or dating.
Usually the joking part is a safety mechanism. In the event he doesn't get a positive response from you, he can brush off his comments as a joke and that he didn't mean anything serious about it. You and I know he'd probably would jump at the chance of dating you.
If you're interested in him, he's waiting for you to respond. When an older man shows interest in dating or going out, it's best to let him know if you're available.
If an older man doesn't get some reassurance from you or if you play too hard to get, he might take it as a sign of rejection and stop putting the moves on you. If he does this, it will be much more difficult for you to talk about dating in the future.
If you want to attract an older man or know if he's interested is to treat him like someone your own age.
Don't make a big deal about the age difference. You might even tell him that age doesn't matter to you. You might tell him that you like dating older guys and actually prefer them over younger men. This usually puts an older man at ease and he's more likely to ask you to go out. Being asked out on a date is best way to know if an older man is interested in you.